INFIDELITY COUNSELING

Start healing by seeking infidelity counseling. The feeling of betrayal and remorse from physical or emotional infidelity can be devastating. I am uniquely qualified to help in your restorative process and healing to make this distressing discovery easier to navigate and to prevent further damage to your relationship. Seeking infidelity counseling immediately following the newly exposed betrayal gives you a sense of control over your future. Infidelity may keep you from tending to the simplest everyday tasks while feeling like the darkest days many couples will ever experience. 

ALLOW ALL YOUR EMOTIONS WITHOUT JUDGMENT

I help relationships heal in the most considerate way possible from what can seem like a hopeless and overwhelming obstacle. Whether you are the injured or the participating partner, the emotions emerging may be challenging to work through on your own. In methodical, yet meaningful ways, I guide you in infidelity counseling through the stages experienced. I invite you to be kind and patient with yourself as you process and absorb the details of the revelation while recognizing that betrayal can emerge even in open relationships. 

MANAGE THE CRISIS AFTER INFIDELITY

During the immediate crisis, I assist in calming the storm and restoring a sense of normalcy. In the immediate first days, you learn how to organize the devastating information, how much knowledge of the events is helpful, and how to lean on the select supportive friends and family members assisting in the necessary and healthy healing.

EXPLORE THE MEANING OF THE INFIDELITY

As you move through the process, you learn what made your relationship more vulnerable to the events. You will gain all the knowledge necessary to make the decisions about the next steps going forward. Infidelity cannot be fully resolved without examining in infidelity counseling the individual conditions and sexual factors in the relationship. Many precipitating components play into infidelity. I have helped partners rebuild trust by thoughtfully teasing out these underlying elements that lead to betrayal. Countless partners have recreated their relationships with me and built a stronger connection than appeared attainable in the first days following. 

REBUILD TRUST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Most relationships survive infidelity and partners learn to communicate more honestly, completely, and clearly than ever before. You have a chance to improve, with the help of my guidance in infidelity counseling, your quality of life in the present, and gain insight as well as knowledge on how to change unhealthy or unproductive behavior patterns that may have played a role in the affair. 

RESHAPE YOUR INTIMATE FUTURE

My style is dynamic, collaborative, and interactive while maintaining a nonjudgmental and neutral approach. You will move forward toward the desired outcome, the new contract, at the pace fitting to both of you. Together we will reshape your future while exploring your strengths and what you want to invite for happiness in your life.